How to build a strong mindset?
January 2, 2024Find courage to start
I don't think you will feel a 100 % ready. That day will never come. But there will be a moment when your courage outweighs your fear. That's when you begin.
I've been longing for months to write the first chapter of this blog. I've also been extremely nervous to start. Today is that day when my courage outweighs my fear so here we go.
Who is Characterista?
Well, I won't reveal my name or who I am but I will tell you how this idea came to life and most important, what vision I have with this blog.
I’m doing this because I've been stuck myself. We are talking about stuck in every single emotion in all areas in life. You feel me? During that time I went on a massive journey of not only discovering things about myself but I managed to gather the keys on how to help accelerate the healing process. I wish I knew the things I know now, therefore I will from now on share them with you.
I’m here to inspire you to discover your own keys on how to make you happy always or at least make the difficult times a little bit less dark. I want these texts to help your mind think above what you're dealing with right now. Think of it as a invisible little angel sitting on your shoulder boosting your way of changing your thoughts into the right direction. Your thoughts are so important. That's where it all starts. What you say to yourself will make a huge impact on your actions so chose your them wisely.
I will challenge you to look at what you have in life. I know you will always want to have more but if you look at what you don’t have, you will also never have enough. Remember, the grass is always greener where you water it. So let us focus on the grass that you have and let us watch it flourish.
I'ven been wondering what exactly to bring up first. Been thinking it needs to be something epic, something that will capture you all in one second. Of course thats important, but then I asked myself. Whats important to me? The most important question you should ask yourself is, what do YOU really want? The answer to that, once you can establish for yourself what the answer is, every choice you make will move you in the direction of what you say your vision is. When you do that , the forces of life rise up to meet you. The reason why most people have such chaotic lives is because they're living in chaos in their heads. As soon as you get clear, it clears up.
There's another angle to this, in the process of the clear up. Loneliness is the price you pay when you start to improve yourself. It sounds scary I know but moving forward and when you heal from your traumas, when you are awakened, you do become lonely because then you start seeing everyone for who they are. You haven't just pinpointed out your own traumas and started the journey forward, you also start pinpointing out other people’s traumas. You look at this person and you’re like, abandonment issues, daddy/mommy issues or omg this person has a narcissistic personality etc. You also start realising that they’re not doing anything about it and they don’t even care about doing anything about it. What usually happens is that your entire persona rejects these behaviours because you see right through them through your own experiences because you chose to deal with them. You also protect your soul, by not wanting to be associated with those people. Another word of protecting your soul to me is clear and set boundaries. Because, once you heal, the receipt is strong boundaries...so you become lonely.
I'll tell you this, I’d rather be alone than with the wrong crowd. Look at the people in your circle right now. Do you get inspired? If the answer is no, you do not have a circle, you have a cage. Turn your wounds into wisdom and move forward.
So hey, I'm the girl you come to if you want to not only overcome tough times in life, but thrive. Let's do this.